Lourdes & Hartman

Lourdes & Hartman

November 27, 2026 • Bay Shore, NY
100 Days To Go!
Lourdes & Hartman

Lourdes & Hartman

November 27, 2026 • Bay Shore, NY
100 Days To Go!

Is there a wedding registry?

We don’t have a registry — your presence is the best gift. If you’d like to celebrate us with something tangible, a card or cash gift is warmly appreciated.

When is the RSVP deadline?

We’ll send invitations soon—please RSVP by October 15, 2026. Check back in September for full details and mailing updates.

Are children invited?

We prefer a child-free celebration so our guests can enjoy a fun night off. However, we understand that circumstances sometimes require you to bring your little ones. If you need to bring your children, we completely understand and ask that you let us know on your RSVP so we can accommodate your family!

What is the wedding dress code?

Formal attire: gentlemen—suit and tie or tuxedo (dark suit recommended); ladies—cocktail dresses, elegant separates, or floor-length gowns. Our wedding is the evening of November 27 in NY, so please dress for cool November weather and comfortable dancing. If you’re unsure about an outfit, let us know on the RSVP page.

Are pictures allowed during ceremony / reception?

Yes — we welcome photos and videos, but please be considerate. Feel free to take pictures and share them with us, but please avoid blocking the photographer.